Narrated Ibn Abbas (RA) :
For the whole year I had the desire to ask Umar bin Al-Khattab (RA) regarding the explanation of a Verse (in Surat Al-Tahrim) but I could not ask him because I respected him very much. When he went to perform the Hajj, I too went along with him. On our return, while we were still on the way home. Umar went aside to answer the call of nature by the Arak trees. I waited till he finished and then I proceeded with him and asked him. "O chief of the Believers! Who were the two wives of the Prophet ﷺ who aided one another against him?" He said, "They were Hafsah (RA) and Aisha." Then I said to him, "By Allah, I wanted to ask you about this a year ago, but I could not do so owing to my respect for you." Umar said, "Do not refrain from asking me. If you think that I have knowledge (about a certain matter), ask me; and if I know (something about it), I will tell you." Then Umar added, "By Allah, in the Pre-lslamic Period of Ignorance we did not pay attention to women until Allah revealed regarding them what He revealed regarding them and assigned for them what He has assigned. Once while I was thinking over a certain matter, my wife said, "I recommend that you do so-and-so." I said to her, "What have you got to do with the is matter? Why do you poke your nose in a matter which I want to see fulfilled.?" She said, How strange you are, O son of Al-Khattab! You dont want to be argued with whereas your daughter, Hafsah (RA) surely, argues with Allahs Apostle ﷺ so much that he remains angry for a full day!" Umar then reported; how he at once put on his outer garment and went to Hafsah (RA) and said to her, "O my daughter! Do you argue with Allahs Apostle ﷺ so that he remains angry the whole day?" H. afsa said, "By Allah, we argue with him." Umar said, "Know that I warn you of Allahs punishment and the anger of Allahs Apostle ﷺ . . . O my daughter! Dont be betrayed by the one who is proud of her beauty because of the love of Allahs Apostle ﷺ for her (i.e. Aisha (RA))." Umar addled, "Then I went out to Um Salamas house who was one of my relatives, and I talked to her. She said, O son of Al-Khattab! It is rather astonishing that you interfere in everything; you even want to interfere between Allahs Apostle ﷺ and his wives! By Allah, by her talk she influenced me so much that I lost some of my anger. I left her (and went home). At that time I had a friend from the Ansar who used to bring news (from the Prophet) in case of my absence, and I used to bring him the news if he was absent. In those days we were afraid of one of the kings of Ghassan tribe. We heard that he intended to move and attack us, so fear filled our hearts because of that. (One day) my Ansari friend unexpectedly knocked at my door, and said, "Open Open! I said, Has the king of Ghassan come? He said, No, but something worse; Allahs Apostle ﷺ has isolated himself from his wives. I said, Let the nose of Aisha (RA) and Hafsah (RA) be stuck to dust (i.e. humiliated)! Then I put on my clothes and went to Allahs Apostles residence, and behold, he was staying in an upper room of his to which he ascended by a ladder, and a black slave of Allahs Apostle ﷺ was (sitting) on the first step. I said to him, Say (to the Prophet) Umar bin Al-Khattab (RA) is here. Then the Prophet ﷺ admitted me and I narrated the story to Allahs Apostle. When I reached the story of Um Salama, Allahs Apostle ﷺ smiled while he was lying on a mat made of palm tree leaves with nothing between him and the mat. Underneath his head there was a leather pillow stuffed with palm fibres, and leaves of a saut tree were piled at his feet, and above his head hung a few water skins. On seeing the marks of the mat imprinted on his side, I wept. He said. Why are you weeping? I replied, "O Allahs Apostle ﷺ ! Caesar and Khosrau are leading the life (i.e. Luxurious life) while you, Allahs Apostle ﷺ though you are, is living in destitute". The Prophet ﷺ then replied. Wont you be satisfied that they enjoy this world and we the Hereafter? "